Friday, October 16, 2009

The Mystery of Alligators

Since I was a small boy I have been fascinated with alligators. How could a creature so large and strong both run and swim with such agility to capture prey? Several weeks ago my wife, children and I went to the Okefenokee Swamp in South Georgia to see alligators in their natural habitat. We got on a boat to travel several miles into the Swamp, and as my daughter Faith was driving the boat we suddenly saw a gator rising out of the black water in front of us. Upon seeing this ferocious beast swimming beside our boat, I was reminded of the many great unknown aspects of life. I was reminded of God using crocodiles as an example of the limits of human understanding in his response to Job’s questioning (see Job 41-42). Many of the most important aspects of life require us to take a courageous step into the mystery of the unknown: marriage, child-rearing, job choice, committing our lives to Christ, etc. As Paul writes of both marriage and our relationship with Christ, “As the Scriptures say, ‘A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’ This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one.” (Ephesians 5:31-33). In order to live with mystery, we need faith in order to live. There is an importance of faith in many aspects of our lives; but the most important is our relationship with God. Ask God to give you the courage to step boldly into the unknown of life, because “we walk by faith, not by sight.” (2 Corinthians 5:7). Selah

"How To Love Difficult People in Our Lives"

Written for September 22nd
When dealing with difficult people in our lives, many of us resort to anger, resentment or isolation – we don’t appreciate how we are being treated by persons and our “fight or flight instinct” is triggered. Yet if we don’t learn how to deal with conflicts with others in a healthy way, our lives become agitated as animosities build up in our souls. As a Christian, I have tried over the years to remind myself that every person is created by God in His image and that all persons are someone for whom Christ died. That has helped me in my behavior towards difficult people in my life, but it was lacking in helping me to love these persons. After all, Jesus commanded us, "You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you: Love your enemies] and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in Heaven. He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your Heavenly Father is perfect.” (Matthew 5:43-48). This seems an impossible standard -- we are merely human after all -- therefore many people make no attempt to move toward Jesus’ command of relating to difficult people with love. The truth is that it is impossible for us to do so as human beings, but there is a power that can help us go beyond politeness to difficult people toward actively loving them. In my recent studies, I discovered a passage of scripture that has provoked my thinking and given me a new understanding of loving my enemies. When we confess that Jesus is Lord, we receive the Holy Spirit within us and “where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord's glory, are being transformed into His likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.” (2 Corinthians 3:17-18). When we react with anger, resentment and isolation toward difficult people, we are like the Apostles James and John when they became violently angry with the Samaritans after some conflict, we “do not know what kind of Spirit” we have within us. (Luke 9:55). We need to realize that how we relate to people is not dependent on their character or actions, but on who we are – children of a Heavenly Father who pours love on the righteous and unrighteous alike. He has given us His Spirit to transform us into His likeness throughout our lives. Selah.

"Finding Hope in Despair”

Last weekend I was in New York City to see some friends and we visited the 9/11 Memorial Site. Each of us became quiet as we remembered the feeling we each had on that day almost eight years ago when the towers fell and so many people were killed. We then walked less than a block into the small Anglican Church, St. Paul’s Trinity, which served as the place of refuge and rest for the firefighters, rescue workers and aid workers. My eyes filled with tears as I saw the photos and messages left by desperate family members frantically searching for loved ones they would never see again. In another area were photos of church members and other people who came into the area to bring water, necessities, and compassion to those who were digging through the wreckage or waiting to hear word about their loved ones. I was heartened to see that there were many who followed the call of Jesus to “Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galations 6:2). As I looked around at the many people walking through this church, I praised God for the hope and love that He was continuing to inspire through the gracious gifts of the persons in that Church during that painful time for many families and our nation. One of the greatest witnesses that we can have for Christ is to help those who are hurting. As Jesus commanded, “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in Heaven.” (Matthew 5:16). Selah