Friday, October 16, 2009
The Mystery of Alligators
"How To Love Difficult People in Our Lives"
When dealing with difficult people in our lives, many of us resort to anger, resentment or isolation – we don’t appreciate how we are being treated by persons and our “fight or flight instinct” is triggered. Yet if we don’t learn how to deal with conflicts with others in a healthy way, our lives become agitated as animosities build up in our souls. As a Christian, I have tried over the years to remind myself that every person is created by God in His image and that all persons are someone for whom Christ died. That has helped me in my behavior towards difficult people in my life, but it was lacking in helping me to love these persons. After all, Jesus commanded us, "You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you: Love your enemies] and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in Heaven. He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your Heavenly Father is perfect.” (Matthew 5:43-48). This seems an impossible standard -- we are merely human after all -- therefore many people make no attempt to move toward Jesus’ command of relating to difficult people with love. The truth is that it is impossible for us to do so as human beings, but there is a power that can help us go beyond politeness to difficult people toward actively loving them. In my recent studies, I discovered a passage of scripture that has provoked my thinking and given me a new understanding of loving my enemies. When we confess that Jesus is Lord, we receive the Holy Spirit within us and “where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord's glory, are being transformed into His likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.” (2 Corinthians 3:17-18). When we react with anger, resentment and isolation toward difficult people, we are like the Apostles James and John when they became violently angry with the Samaritans after some conflict, we “do not know what kind of Spirit” we have within us. (Luke 9:55). We need to realize that how we relate to people is not dependent on their character or actions, but on who we are – children of a Heavenly Father who pours love on the righteous and unrighteous alike. He has given us His Spirit to transform us into His likeness throughout our lives. Selah.
"Finding Hope in Despair”
Last weekend I was in
Monday, July 13, 2009
Steve
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
If you are hurting at this time, look into God’s Word for help and assurance. Jesus preached His most well-known sermon to give help to the weary. In Jesus’ sermon on the Mount, He spoke comforting words that Rick Warren uses to formulate eight principles for encouragement:
1. Realize I’m not God; I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and my life is unmanageable.
“Happy are those who know they are spiritually poor.” Matthew 5:4
2. Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to him, and that he has the power to help me recover.
“Happy are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”Matthew 5:4
3. Consciously choose to commit all my life and will to Christ’s care and control.
“Happy are the meek.” Matthew 5:5
4. Openly examine and confess my faults to God, to myself, and to someone I trust.
“Happy are the pure in heart.” Matthew 5:8
5. Voluntarily submit to every change God wants to make in my life, and humbly ask him to remove my character defects.
“Happy are those whose greatest desire is to do what God requires.” Matthew 5:6
6. Evaluate all my relationships. Offer forgiveness to those who have hurt me and make amends for harm I’ve done to others, except when to do so would harm them or others.
“Happy are the merciful.” Matthew 5:7
“Happy are the peacemakers.” Matthew 5:9
7. Reserve a daily time with God for self-examination, Bible reading, and prayer in order to know God and his will for my life and to gain the power to follow his will.
8. Yield myself to God to be used to bring this Good News to others, both by my example and by my words.
“Happy are those who are persecuted because they do what God requires.” Matthew 5:10
May God’s Word and the love of Christ strengthen you at this time. Selah.
In Christ,
Steve
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Autobiography of Albert Schweitzer.” Although Dr. Schweitzer was an established Pastor, scholar and musician, at age 30 he gave all that up to follow God’s call into Gabon, Africa to treat the poor who had no way of receiving medical attention. I found it ironic that many of his friends found it unsettling in their minds that he should forsake his life of comfort and prestige for a life of servanthood. One of my favorite passages that Schweitzer wrote explains his calling to a life of Christian mission, “I live my life in God . . . [therefore] the idea that men should ever be favored by being free from the responsibilities of self-sacrifice . . . is foreign to the ethic of reverence for life. It requires that we should all live as men for men. Therefore, search and see if there is not some place where you may invest your humanity. As long ago as my student days, it struck me as incomprehensible that I should be allowed to live such a happy life while I saw so many people around me wrestling with care and suffering. Out of the depths of my feeling of happiness, there gradually grew up within me an understanding of the saying of Jesus that we must not treat our lives as being for ourselves alone. As the years have passed, I’ve found the truth lay hidden for me in Jesus' saying: ‘Whosoever shall save his life shall lose it, and whosoever shall lose his life for My sake and the Gospel shall save it.’”
Following the command of Christ and with the guidance of Dr. Schweitzer, I implore you to search in your life for ways to invest your gifts, time and resources for God and other people. For in the end, as another noted theologian Randy Travis says, “It's not what you take when you leave this world behind you, It's what you leave behind you when you go . . . (Three Wooden Crosses)” Selah.
In Christ,
Steve
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
This is the week that we celebrate the most important week in the history of the world – when Jesus was welcomed into Jerusalem with a parade, when He instituted the sacrament of Holy Communion, when He was arrested, tried and crucified, and when He arose from the grave in glory and victory. In your personal devotion time, through prayer and meditation, focus on these particular truths from the last week of Jesus’ human life and their import to your life:
· Jesus’ death was a life-giving act of God’s love and mercy, not vengeance: “God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8) and “This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” (1 John 4:10-11).
· God’s grace through Jesus was for our salvation: “This is My blood of the new covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins. I tell you, I will not drink of this fruit of the vine from now on until that day when I drink it anew with you in My Father's kingdom." (Matthew 26:27-28).
· Jesus taught that sacrificial love has a mysterious power: “I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds. The man who loves his life will lose it, while the man who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. Whoever serves Me must follow Me; and where I am, my servant also will be. My Father will honor the one who serves Me. Now My heart is troubled, and what shall I say? 'Father, save Me from this hour'? No, it was for this very reason I came to this hour.” (John 12:24-27).
· Jesus’ sacrificial love was painful: “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death," He said to them. "Stay here and keep watch." Going a little farther, He fell to the ground and prayed that if possible the hour might pass from Him. "Abba Father," He said, "everything is possible for You. Take this cup from Me. Yet not what I will, but what You will." (Mark 14:35-36)
· Jesus’ expression of sacrificial love is the greatest example of love -- as Jesus teaches, “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.” (John 15:12-13)
· Having received this grace and love, we are called to be dispensers of this same grace and sacrificial love to others: “This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down His life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters.” (1 John 3:16).
· Sacrificial love is our primary identity to the world, our chief witness according to Jesus,“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another." (John 13:34-35).
· After the Resurrection, Jesus gave us our calling, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to Me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." (Matthew 28:18-20).
Read and pray over these scriptures and God will reveal to you the calling that He has placed on your life and where He wishes you to go and be. Selah.
Steve